“If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is a compromise.” - Robert Fritz

🔵 Just like a river flows down the path of least resistance, your life also moves down the path of least resistance. You can create a path that leads you to accomplish what you want in your life. To create it, you must change the structure of your life which is determined by your desires, beliefs, assumptions, and how you view the world. These structures determine your behavior.

🔵 To achieve anything in your life, you need to shift your approach from a reactive approach to a creative approach.

🔵 Look for positive motivations for achieving your goals.

🔵 Some steps that can help you form a structure in your life for accomplishing what you want are: 1) Find out exactly what you want without worrying about the process. This is your life purpose. 2) Visualize the result. 3) Decide how you want to show up in the world and make choices accordingly. 4) Know that the process takes time to bring results, you need to just keep going.

This book tells the exact framework that you need to accomplish what you want in your life or to live the purpose of your life. Here’s a quick summary for you:

There are two types of paradigms, the problem-solving paradigm, and the creative paradigm. Most people have a problem-solving paradigm, they take actions only to solve their existing problems such as losing weight or getting out of miserable life. In other words, they have a reactive approach toward life.

People with a creative paradigm take actions to create the life they desire or to attain the purpose of their life, just like an artist who creates art pieces for the sake of creating them. You can achieve big things when you develop a creative mindset. This can be done by having a proactive approach to life.

The book, The seven habits of highly effective people talks about the proactive approach and the reactive approach in detail. You can read its summary on my website.

Change from the reactive mindset and problem-solving mindset to the creative mindset is the biggest mindset change this book talks about.

Seek positive motivation to achieve your goals, for example, you need to get married so, you strive to get in your best possible shape. Having positive motivation help you keep sticking to your goals.

Avoid having negative motivation such as trying to lose weight because you think you look fat and hate it about yourself. Once you start seeing results because of this motivation, you are likely to go back to your original habits such as eating unhealthy and not working out. Negative motivation keeps you stuck in a loop and you keep oscillating like a pendulum towards achieving what you want and not having it.

This is the most important part of achieving your life purpose. According to Robert, doing what you really love in your life is your life purpose. To figure out what exactly you want in your life, try sitting down with yourself for some time and ask your heart what it wants. Most people fail at this very first step because they fear they will never be able to achieve their desires. You need to plan the results before planning the process.

Knowing what you want is a three-step process, (i) ask yourself the question what do I want. (ii) consider what you want independently of considerations for the process. (iii)separate what you want from questions of possibility.

Visualize how your life will look when you achieve your goals, daydream about it, and write down your desires. This is crucial to set a clear vision about where you want to be in your life.

Making choices requires practice and indecisive people avoid doing that because of the fear of making the wrong choices. To achieve what you want, you need to make choices that matter. Say it out loud, I choose to (your goal).

These are three types of choices this book talks about:

The primary choice

Make a primary choice primary about the result you want for itself. A primary choice is not a stepping stone that you achieve because it will lead you to something else. It is the result that you would want to have just for its own sake, independent of any rewards. Make this choice without thinking about the process.

The fundamental choice

A fundamental choice is even more important than the primary choice. It is who you actually want to show up as in the world. Once you've made this choice, the meaning of current reality changes for you. This choice must come from what you really want.

The secondary choice

The secondary choices are the ones assisting your path to the fundamental goals.

There will be times when nothing seems to be happening, but you need to keep following a structure to get the outcomes.

After reading this book, I implemented what it teaches. Here are some changes I noticed in myself:

This book can give you a blueprint for overcoming resistance in the way of achieving your goals. I highly recommend you reading this.

This book is a great pick for everyone who is after living a life they genuinely love. Whether you are a business person, an entrepreneur, a writer, an artist, or whatever, this book is for you if:

Robert Fritz, the author of the international bestseller The Path of Least Resistance is an American author. He is known for introducing the concept of structural dynamics and how it impacts human behavior. His insights have served as the foundation of meaningful and lasting change for both individuals and organizations.

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